“We know what we are, but not what we may be.” – William Shakespeare
We throw the word ‘identity’ around when expressing our choices around fashion, haircuts, pop culture, body art, and piercing, but what about our jobs? For some people, their profession is deeply tied to their identity. It’s easy to imagine how a marine/soldier, firefighter, police officer, or first responder might feel when they contemplate leaving that intense line of work.
Change is never easy
Change can be difficult for anyone who plans to leave an established career. Despite the overlapping transferrable skills, a teacher who shifts into a role as an author will face some challenges. However, I would reason that this transition is less dramatic than that of a soldier or first responder who transitions into a typical office/business context.

Let me tell you a story.
To illustrate this point, my first-hand experience is worth sharing. During the fall of 2014, I spent a few days at a Canadian military base learning about various military career paths. I participated in some basic drills, observed military battle simulations/exercises, and interacted with personnel. I wore a standard uniform, ate in the cafeteria, rode in armoured vehicles and trucks, and shot various high-powered weapons. This small snapshot in time gave me insight into how demanding this type of work environment is. It’s not a 9 – 5 experience … it’s a 24/7 commitment. It’s an immersive existence where you as a person are your job. Your colleagues are your family. I was only there for a few days but I’m still in touch with some of the people I met. I have no doubt that the bond would be extraordinary had I trained, worked, and lived with them for years.
For first responders and military personnel, the gravity of these career transitions is more complicated than simply adjusting to water cooler chitchat. Rather, it’s about adapting to an entirely different work culture – and identity. All while they deal with (potential) mental and emotional traumas associated with their previous occupation.

Guidance may be needed
In an ideal world, all career coaches, businesses, and other organizations would be well informed and prepared to help facilitate these major changes. Sadly, this is not the case and the process is often unnecessarily difficult and discouraging. If you or some you know identifies with these career transition themes, this article on How to Transition from Military to Civilian Work is a good starting point.
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